Ian, 40 from Shenzhen, China

🌿 About Me

Hi, I’m Lan — 40, a Libra from Shenzhen. I’m a nurse with a university degree, and I think my profession says a lot about me: I’m caring, patient, and I naturally want the people around me to feel comfortable. I live a simple, healthy lifestyle—no smoking, no drinking—and I’m happiest when life feels calm, honest, and warm.

I’m not the type with a huge social circle. I have a small group of friends, and I like it that way—less noise, more real connection. In my free time, I enjoy listening to music, traveling, and thinking (yes, I’m a little reflective sometimes). I love discovering new places and trying new things, whether it’s a new cuisine, a new activity, or just a new view that makes you pause for a second.

I’ll be honest: I’m not great at cooking 😄 , but I am good at sharing—time, care, attention, support. I also have a personal belief about relationships: I think a family is like a small company. Everyone has responsibilities, and when both people do their part with love and respect, the “team” becomes strong. I like harmony, not drama.

❤️ Looking For

I’m looking for a man who is caring, loving, and responsible—someone ready for a serious relationship. But I don’t want life to feel heavy. I love a man who can joke with me, laugh with me, and keep things warm and human. I truly believe a smile is one of the best things in the world.

I’m attracted to a partner who is kind-hearted, understanding, and supportive. If you value family, loyalty, and everyday closeness, we’ll understand each other well. I also enjoy learning about different cultures, so if you like sharing traditions and stories, we’ll always have something to talk about.

🌟 Fun Fact

I’m a nurse, so I can be very serious and responsible at work… but in life, I’m happiest with someone who can make me laugh even on an ordinary day 😄